How To Overcome Self Doubt

Self doubt is something we all have in some part of our lives and it is super hard to over come it. Having self doubt is slowly drowning your dreams and holding you back, so you need to work on yourself and get over the self doubt.

Imagine if you could do anything you set your mind to. I believe that I will be rich. And some people might call me delusional, but I don’t let that shake me.

The truth is that there is a lot in this world that you can achieve and there is a lot more that we humans can achieve. And if you just believe in your self. It can change the whole direction of your future.

In this blog post I will teach you on How To Overcome Self Doubt. So get comfortable, get a drink and lets tackle this self doubt that we have.

What To Do When You Have Self Doubt

Having self doubt is hard and I definitely understand what it is like. But when I had a lot of self doubt I just reversed the whole thing.

I might have believed that I will never get far in life and I am a loser.

I reversed it.

And instead of believing in that I just didn’t give a f#ck. Yeah people might think I am a loser but I just said to my self that They will one day die and so will I. So turn that frown upside down and don’t give a fuck what your self doubt even says.

When I thought that I will be a loser for ever I said: “I believe that I can do this”

Would you rather have self doubt and life your life from 9-5, doing dumb decision and not improving yourself.

Or.

Would you pour you heart out and give it all you got. Every day even doing a little toward your dream. Yeah it might get hard or it might be hard right now. But belie in yourself, because if you do that, everything will be okay.

And even if you failed. At least you walked towards your dream, something that most of us don’t do.

Think Big

You have do think big, even if it might sound delusional or stupid, think big.

YOU need to get rid of that self doubt that you have and think big, have big dreams and do big. We all have this limiting self belief and getting rid of that is super hard to do.

But the truth is that they are NOT REAL.

No one thought that smart phones will ever exist. But now we have the internet right in our pockets with the whole worlds knowledge. And we don’t even think of that.

The limits you set on yourself are the only limits you will ever have.

Relate To People Who Have Done It Before

Relate to people who have your dreams or who are doing what you are dreaming of. If they can do it so can you.

What they did is that, they got rid of this child that is in us that is limiting ourselves.

I read a book called “The diary of the CEO” and in there was a story of a guy who was sitting at a table in a park or something.

And then come a guy who is running and breathing heavily. He comes and says: “I will send rockets to space, make electric cars and I want to put chips into peoples heads”.

Hearing that he didn’t believe him but if we look now that fat guy running was Elon Musk.

I don’t very well remember the story but it was something like that, you get the idea.

If Elon the person who read NeoKalon and knows to think big, if he can do it so can you.

Don’t think they are better then you, they are just people like you but they put countless hours in to master it.

Obstacle Is The Way.

Instead of taking things negatively and giving up on every obstacle. Take the chance to learn from them. Yes it might sound super cringe but every obstacle in your way, you can use them to learn and become stronger.

I suggest to read a book: “Obstacle is the way” by By Ryan Holiday.

I personally know that it will get harder for me, but I believe in myself that I am strong enough and i can get over the hard obstacles in my life and learn them and use them for my success.

And you need to believe in yourself to.

Work hard and be more consistent

If you have a big dream that you want to achieve, whatever it is, you need to put hours into that dream. A footballer can’t be pro if he doesn’t ut hours, hard work and consistency into it.

In the book “The Diary of a CEO” There was this idea that I really liked. It was called a five bucket rule:

• bucket 1: Knowledge
• Bucket 2: Skills
• Bucker 3: Network
• Bucket 4: Resources
• Bucket 5: Opportunities

What I am about to explain to is very logical but it translates this idea very well.

You need to put hard work into something and acquire Knowledge.

With the Knowledge you can put that into a Skill.

Working with your Skills You can build a Network of people.

Having a lot of contacts and people who you know gives you more Resources

And finally with Resources you have more Opportunities.

So doing hard work and acquiring knowledges gives you skills that you can use. The inly buckets you need to fill is your Knowledge and Skills everything else filles it self.

You need to have that mindset and lock into this, into your dream, you need to put hours into it.

Final Word And Summary

I hope this post was helpful for you and that you got something out of this. In the summary all i have to say is just be positive, put the hours in and work on yourself.